It might sound strange coming from a woman, but I feel sorry for men these days. One moment they’re told to be more sensitive, and the next they’re scolded for being too soft. Navigating relationships can be just so confusing.

As a community service to all men out there, I figured I should post this video to help them out a bit. It features valuable relationship advice, as demonstrated by John Wayne. After all, everyone knows there’s no greater role model than The Duke.

In all seriousness, modern women might not take too kindly to some of the “tough love” shown here. Times have certainly changed since John Wayne’s movies were filmed! Men, you have been warned.